Shock your self..it works...!!

Hi,

After reading the earlier post you must have thought of how Ive started talking about the meaning of life and responsibility and all the things that are stressful but destressing after effecting an action. so i decided to get back to mindless post that we've seen earlier on this space.



The essence of human life is his 'childhood', yes we will talk about all that we have done,felt and destroyed in childhood.Now why and how am i going to connect it to relieving stress is something that you'll have to wait and watch. when i sit and think about my childhood (the happier times) i can vividly remember a few experiences. some of them are funny while some are very stupid, but its in this stupidity that we often find comfort. So when was the last time you did something stupid, think...and if you have to think so hard, then it means that you need to do something stupid rather crazy right away. Have u ever caught a ferry to an unknown place, hitchhiked on a truck to nowhere, gatecrashed a high end party or raced a bus on foot.doesn't it get your blood pumping , adrenalin rushing, heart thumping, its the same we felt in childhood doing crazy things(we thought were crazy) like racing on cycles, running a race or chasing a cock, going off into unknown old houses. Why do people do extreme sports...not because they are crazy or have nothing better in life to do its coz helps them getting off their minds the daily tensions they bear.
Its the feeling of that stupidness or crazy idea, that gets our nerves relaxed.
So i suggest be a little childish and do that stupid activity once in a while, it'll do a world of good to your mind.
Trust me...

You are Me...!! Really..

So here's my next post...it just occurred to me right now ,which is why I'm penning it down. as i write this piece two boys aged approx 13-14 are cleaning my room,in the hostel where I'm pursuing my post graduation degree. If you've not guessed the topic by now...read on..

Its on something which is a little emotional and may want you to look at life differently, a little serious from earlier posts put up on the site.

I am a strong believer of being thank full to the universe of whatever she has given us and i generally try to take life's giving (good or bad) in a positive sense. We go through a lot of ups and downs, turns and twist, heartaches and sometimes heart failures(as we MBA students call it when an assignment has been preponed), but keeping all those things in place have we ever sat down and wondered the amount we have received as compared to the amount we have given back.

The irony is that as i sit here typing this article, from my hostel, for which i have paid lakhs,i have two boys in the room who are at an age which should be their vital years of knowledge, but are cleaning my room, to ensure that "I" study in a better enviornment and strive higher.
Whether you call it luck, destiny or the way life is, its not fair...!! But again you might be saying that "hey stop getting all emotional here", "we'll do our part of charity to help out" and "this is the way the world works" and blah and blah.

To this i would have two points to say 1) calling it charity would be grossly wrong on our part, as the essence of the term "charity" , reflects something that we "need" to give, "need" by it self as a definition means a -'necessity or obligation', do you see what I'm saying here. Saying that we are responsible to give back to society would be more apt. Point 2) is learn to differentiate between what you really 'need' in life as opposed to what you 'want' in life. when it comes to materialistic pleasures question your self with two options. Do i "need" this or do is "want" this. if your answer is "want" then do not purchase it, if it is "need" then go ahead. and yes lastly giving back to the world should be our 'Responsibility'. Trust you me, this may sound stupid but try giving back with full heart and soul and see the amount to which it goes in relieving frustration/stress/anxieties.

Irony is that as i write this, I'm typing on a Dell Inspiron14inch(latest make), wearing a G shock watch, Levis sandals and an Adidas perfume. Unfortunately I'm much a part of You. As You are a part of Me.... :)

Swimming on a golf course

This next post was inspired while sitting in our Introduction to economics class yesterday.
Talking about frustration i was just reminded about it how funny and embarrassing it feels to sit through classes when few students keep answering so much so as to tell " we don't belong here ... we know all that is being taught " . As u just sit there staring at the professor then the board then back at the professor feeling helpless as to what to follow, whether what is going on in class or sit and think of how other students who are being able to answer are so much more smarter than you, and how badly informed about the world are you.

So what am i effectively trying to say here, is that this situation takes place in everyone's life and might have taken place in yours too, and at that point in time you might be feeling miserable, actually utterly lowly in life. So to get rid of this "ultra comparison mode" I have a flypside, which dawned upon me sitting in that very same class. It stems from a very simple and straightforward belief that " different persons have different capabilities and likings", so getting hyper about not being able to answer in a particular class and to start thinking that " the whole world is smarter than me and i am not" , is completely futile. The only thing we need to keep telling ourselves is that i am better off at probably another sphere in life. doesn't this sound like so simple, and you would be saying that "hey i already know this" but stop,wait, think back a bit and im sure you will remember of a situation in class just a few days back where this must have happened to you, and you got all tensed up about life and its future and blah and blah... but you still dint sit and think that " hey so what if i cant master this one , I'm much better off in another one" . The reason why this needs to be told is that many times in life we know basic solutions to complex problems(which are created by we ourselves), but simply forget them because they are so general in nature.

As I write this blog i too probably realise that i might not be one of the best people to write a blog on politics , cricket, food, current affairs etc...so that doesn't mean that i know nothing.The fact that i can notice small things in life and analyse and comment on it may be a creative bent by itself.
Thus be positive about life, after all tomorrow is a "New Day"....

On a lighter note....

Wow!! Its a little unbelievable i got excited about blogging, well... very uncharacteristic of me to pen down thoughts, people who know me well will agree with me on this, and will also be a little relieved as their ears will be at peace now. I'm probably better off at speaking (predominantly mindless sensibilities) than writing down thoughts.

This (blogging) seemed to me all very strange and wannabe, but then suddenly it made sense as to why all these ' so called wannabepeople' would sit and write their hearts out. We all have so many untrained/immature/unborn perceptions about the world and the way it functions. These need to be constantly expressed through some outlet or what would occur is called a 'brainblast*' . Well a 'brainblast*' is not actually a condition where the head explodes (for those who's level of IQ is below minus 100) but is an ailment in which people accuse and curse, their own and the worlds existence. Nothing seems right and everything that occurs in the persons life seems burdensome. The cribbing even goes to an extent that if the person doesn't shit on the usual time he does, he starts blaming the politician for it !! (the thought process is somewhat like this: had a late dinner the night before -------due to getting late from office -----got late due to the jam at the circle-----the jam was due to an accident-----the accident was due to bad driving-----the bad driving was due to authorities giving out licences for bribes (without conducting the driving test)------bribes are due to corrupt government officials accepting these monies-------monies are accepted due to politicians getting a cut from it-------then the conclusion dawns upon him that the whole fault is of the politician----). Thus he starts abusing the politician for shitting fifteen minutes later than his usual time. Thus i figured that an antidote to this 'constipation blame game' or the 'brainblast*' is blogging - let your thoughts flow.

One of the reasons why this needs to be explained is because, I was just beginning to have these symptoms. Thus since having saved my self from the condition, i hope others too realise the life saving properties of blogging and start being 'wannabe' today.... hallelujah......Amen


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